Paula Cary

San Antonio, Texas

(352) 672 - 1375

livingoutloudtx@gmail.com 

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If you're over 35 and single, and you don't want to settle for just anyone, you're in the right place to attract the perfect partner for YOU.

You have a dream.

You dream of a partner that knows you. Supports you. Loves you. Someone you can share your life with. Travel with. Perhaps even have a family with.

You’re a catch, and you know it. So, why are you still single? Perhaps you ask yourself that question a little too often--and you may come up with answers like:

“All the good men are taken.”

“Maybe I’m not ____________ enough.”

“Maybe I’m too much of __________.”

“I just can’t seem to find someone I click with.”

“Maybe there is something wrong with me.”

Allow me to be the first to tell you...NONE of these things are true. There is a good man out there waiting for you, who loves you just as you are. And right now, you’re at a time in your life where you really want to find a partner, but you don’t want it to be just anyone.

 

You can’t settle anymore.

 

You can’t keep dating the same guy over and over.

 

You want to be smart about it. You want to go into your next relationship loving yourself, comfortable in your own skin, and knowing that you can express yourself fully, deeply, and intimately.

This is the absolute wisest thing to do. In fact, it’s only when you truly love yourself can you allow anyone else to really love you. It’s only when you’re comfortable with yourself can you experience deep intimacy. And, when you can express yourself fully, you know that your next relationship can have more joy, and less (or zero) unspoken resentments.

My name is Paula Cary, and I’m here to guide you on a journey of bold self-love and expression so you can open up to a loving partnership with someone who you can truly be yourself with.

 

Not only will you feel more confident in relationships with men, but relationships with everyone in your life. When you can love and express yourself, it will affect every area of life in a positive way!

I’ve been very happily married to my husband Jeff for 11 years. Jeff is my rock, my biggest fan, my greatest supporter, and my best friend. I am taking all of what I’ve learned over the years to help you to open up to having this for yourself.

Jeff came into my life when I was career driven and ready to move to a different state entirely.  The men I’d dated before him were of the type that wanted me to follow them wherever they wanted to go, it was never about where I wanted to go. I had been doing some work on myself, and with Jeff--I decided never to sacrifice what was truly important to me. I wanted to  pursue my dreams on my terms.  

 

It turns out Jeff admired my ambition, my drive, and my independence. He advocated for continuing our long-distance and soon to be longer-distance relationship.  

 

6 months later he moved across country to be with me. We’ve been inseparable ever since.

My name is Paula Cary, and I’m here to guide you on a journey of bold self-love and expression so you can open up to a loving partnership with someone who you can truly be yourself with.

 

Not only will you feel more confident in relationships with men, but relationships with everyone in your life. When you can love and express yourself, it will affect every area of life in a positive way!

I’ve been very happily married to my husband Jeff for 11 years. Jeff is my rock, my biggest fan, my greatest supporter, and my best friend. I am taking all of what I’ve learned over the years to help you to open up to having this for yourself.

Jeff came into my life when I was career driven and ready to move to a different state entirely.  The men I’d dated before him were of the type that wanted me to follow them wherever they wanted to go, it was  never about where I wanted to go. So I decided Jeff was no different. I was ready to break off our relationship so that I could pursue my dreams on my terms.  

 

It turns out Jeff admired my ambition, my drive, and my independence. He advocated for continuing our long-distance and soon to be longer-distance relationship.  6 months later he moved across country to be with me. We’ve been inseparable ever since.

My name is Paula Cary, and I’m here to guide you on a journey of bold self-love and expression so you can open up to a loving partnership with someone who you can truly be yourself with.

 

Not only will you feel more confident in relationships with men, but relationships with everyone in your life. When you can love and express yourself, it will affect every area of life in a positive way!

I’ve been very happily married to my husband Jeff for 11 years. Jeff is my rock, my biggest fan, my greatest supporter, and my best friend. I am taking all of what I’ve learned over the years to help you to open up to having this for yourself.

Jeff came into my life when I was career driven and ready to move to a different state entirely.  The men I’d dated before him were of the type that wanted me to follow them wherever they wanted to go, it was  never about where I wanted to go. So I decided Jeff was no different. I was ready to break off our relationship so that I could pursue my dreams on my terms.  

 

It turns out Jeff admired my ambition, my drive, and my independence. He advocated for continuing our long-distance and soon to be longer-distance relationship.  6 months later he moved across country to be with me. We’ve been inseparable ever since.

The key to attracting this kind of relationship is knowing who you are, how to express yourself so you can ask for what you want, and most importantly...allowing yourself to be deeply loved.

 

When you do your own work to open up, love yourself, and feel comfortable in your own skin--you can let another person see you in an intimate and loving way.